Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Women only: Should I still be concerned about a picture that my fiance has of his ex-girlfriend?

The picture is up at his folks cabin. It's been 2 years and 8 months since she broke it off with him. When we were first dating he had asked his folks why they took all her pictures down with me standing right beside him. His folks have pictures behind glass in a very large frame right above the dining table. It looks his parents had taken all of her pictures down when he started dating me. I saw all the pictures of his ex-girlfriend once before his folks had gotten to the cabin since we were there a weekend before them, but I never said anything. His parents relented it looks like after he asked about her pictures being taken down and they put up one of him and her in a boat. It was a faraway shot of them. It appears his parents had tried to cover up the picture as much as possible with other pictures. I had asked about the picture once and who was in it, innocently because they were naming who was in all the pictures. My fiance's mother quickly said it was his cousin that he had out on the boat. I believed her until later when I found pictures of his ex-girlfriend at our house and it indeed was her on the boat. We are getting ready to go the cabin this weekend and I suddenly remembered about that picture. I just didn't like being lied to about it although I know his folks were trying not to have my feelings hurt. It's just the fact that it has been up there for a very long time now. His folks did put pictures of me up too. I'm not going to make an issue of it with him or his folks, but I wonder if other fiances have pictures of their ex-girlfriends displayed while engaged to someone else.

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